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Jennifer Lopez’s past is resurfacing.

Her ex-husband, Ojani Noa, took to Instagram on Saturday in a furious rant, accusing the 56-year-old singer of infidelity.

Noa, who was married to Lopez for less than a year in the ’90s, reacted after Lopez recently told “The Howard Stern Show” that she’s never truly been loved because her exes were “not capable.”

Ojani Noa and Jennifer Lopez at the "U-Turn" premiere in Los Angeles in 1997
Ojani Noa and Jennifer Lopez at the “U-Turn” premiere in Los Angeles in 1997.
Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa attend the "Selena" premiere in March 1997
Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa attend the “Selena” premiere in March 1997.

“Stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card,” Noa, 51, began his message. “The problem is not us. Not me. The problem is you. You’re the one who couldn’t keep it in your pants.”

“You have been ‘loved’ a few times,” he continued. “You have been married 4 times. And have had countless relationships in between. You’ve had good relationships… Me for example.”

Ojani Noa posted a rant about J.Lo on Instagram
Ojani Noa took to Instagram to air his grievances about J.Lo
Ojani Noa claims Jennifer Lopez cheated on him
Ojani Noa claims Jennifer Lopez cheated on him.

Noa, a former waiter, insisted he “was in love” with the Kiss of the Spider Woman actress and said he “moved out of state to support, protect, and care for you.”

“I’m an amazing, loving person—a great human being. Honest, faithful to you, never lied, never misbehaved, never cheated on you,” Noa continued. “I was good to you. I’m too good of a [man] for you.”

Jennifer Lopez with ex-husband Ojani Noa at the "Anaconda" premiere in April 1997
Jennifer Lopez with ex-husband Ojani Noa at the “Anaconda” premiere in April 1997
Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa attend the "Men in Black" premiere in Hollywood, Calif. in June 1997
Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa attend the “Men in Black” premiere in Hollywood, Calif. in June 1997.

“But you… you chose fame and fortune over our relationship,” Noa wrote about Lopez. “You decided to lie, to cheat on me, and even though I stayed and tried to keep the marriage alive, you begged me to maintain it just to avoid bad press—caring more about yourself.”

He also accused the Let’s Get Loud singer of prioritizing “the fast lane” of her career and fame over their relationship.

Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa at the Los Angeles International Airport in March 1997
Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa at the Los Angeles International Airport in March 1997.

“You wanted to continue cheating and lying. I couldn’t stay anymore and deal with the constant dishonesty,” Noa said. “That’s why I left you. That’s why I divorced you.”

“Tell the truth for once,” he added. “Let people know you are the problem. You should be embarrassed, ashamed of yourself.”

The Post has reached out to Lopez’s representatives for comment.

Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa attend the California Fashion Industry Friends of AIDS Project Los Angeles (APLA) Benefit Dinner and Fashion Show in June 1997
Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa attend the California Fashion Industry Friends of AIDS Project Los Angeles (APLA) Benefit Dinner and Fashion Show in June 1997.
Ojani Noa and Jennifer Lopez attend the 1998 Golden Globe Awards
Ojani Noa and Jennifer Lopez attend the 1998 Golden Globe Awards.

Lopez met Noa in 1996 at Gloria Estefan’s restaurant in Miami. They married in February 1997 but divorced just 11 months later.

Last year, commenting on Lopez’s divorce from Ben Affleck in an interview with the Daily Mail, Noa said he holds “no bad feelings” toward his ex-wife.

“I would always be her friend. I sympathize with both of them because divorce is hard,” he added.

Ojani Noa attends Latino Wall Street CPAC Latino 2025 Fundacion TeletonUSA on June 28
Ojani Noa attends Latino Wall Street CPAC Latino 2025 Fundacion TeletonUSA on June 28.
Ojani Noa poses backstage during Telemundo's "Hoy Dia Bailamos" premiere in January 2024
Ojani Noa poses backstage during Telemundo’s “Hoy Dia Bailamos” premiere in January 2024.
Jennifer Lopez on "The Howard Stern Show" on October 15

After Ojani Noa, Lopez was married to Cris Judd from 2001 to 2002 and Marc Anthony from 2004 to 2011. Anthony, 57, is the father of her 17-year-old twins, Max and Emme.

She later wed Ben Affleck, 53, in 2022—two decades after their first engagement ended in 2004. Lopez filed for divorce in August 2024, and the split was finalized in January 2025.

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez attend the 2023 LACMA Gala.

During her recent appearance on The Howard Stern Show, Lopez responded “no” when asked if she’s ever truly been loved.

“What I learned is it’s not that I’m not lovable—it’s that they’re not capable… they don’t have it in them,” the Hustlers actress explained.

Jennifer Lopez during her appearance on "The Howard Stern Show"

“And they gave me what they had,” she continued. “They gave me everything, every time— all the rings, all the things I could ever want. The houses, the rings, the marriage. All of it. But…”

Lopez also admitted, “Sometimes, I didn’t love myself.”

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